Thursday, October 29, 2009

On the Other Side of the Fence...

If you have been reading my blog for a while you know that I work as an educator for the Department of Corrections. Recently a student came into my classroom. He is about the same age as my second oldest son. I could tell right away that he had a great deal of untapped potential. There was just something about him. He was serious about getting his High School Equivalency Diploma (HSED) and he spoke to me in a very respectful manner. (Sad to say this is not always the case with my students).

Starting off with some practice tests in preparation for real GED tests, it became clear early on that this student was going to get his HSED with in a very short amount time. I assured him as I do all of my students that if he was willing to work with me, I would work with him to complete every test before his release. This gave us only about 6 weeks to work on it.

Sharing that he had gotten involved with drugs, this student explained that his life pretty much took on a life of its own, which led to his numerous incarcerations. He was sure to state his intentions of "doing things different" this time. When I asked him why he never got his High School Diploma he stated that he didn't care about school when he was in high school. From the sharing he did of his younger years, it was easy to understand how he could get wrapped up in the life he fell into.

His story is a very common one. However, having a student with his ability is not so common for me. Once he began passing tests, missing only one or two questions per test, the momentum was mounting. He completed the final requirements for completion of his HSED this week with the highest score of any student I have encountered in the four year period I have worked at this school.

Encouraged by his abilities and willingness to do whatever it takes, I asked him what college he intended to go to upon his release. To this question he said, "excuse me?" I told him he needs to use his mind to do something with his life. Simply put, I said, "You cannot waste your mind. You are far too smart not to use your intelligence." I then reminded him that not using his intelligence is likely the reason he ended up in prison and added if he really wanted to "do things different" as he had stated earlier, he might want to consider furthering his education.

I gave him some college catalogs along with a skills inventory so he could think about what he would like to do with his life. He took my leading very seriously and though he was taken back by the interest I showed, it was clear he was beginning to believe in the possibilities. He talked about the possibility of welding and perhaps an apprenticeship program.

Knowing his time was short I asked him some questions as to where he was going home to so I could give him information about programs in his area. He stated that he has no home and when he is released he is being dropped off at a shelter in a large city. I had heard of such cases, but have not encountered one personally. Here is this student who has no job, doesn't even have his HSED in his hand yet, wants to go to college and now he is expected to go make a life for himself without a home to go to. This was very disturbing to me.

In probing further I found out that his parents are deceased and all living relatives are in another state. This case bothers me so much. I question how the Department of Corrections can just put him out on the street with little to no support. This makes no sense to me. Aren’t we in the business of rehabilitation before integration of inmates back into society? The student himself stated that he would be better off staying in prison where he has a roof over his head and three meals per day.

The purpose of Corrections is not just to create a place for inmates to do time. Isn't it DOCs job to put the inmate's hand into the hand of the supports necessary to help him to become a contrubuting citizen in our communities?

My heart has been heavy concerning this inmate ever since our conversation. What does he have waiting on the other side of the fence? I woke up in the middle of the night with his face in my mind and I have been praying continually for the Lord to bring supports in the form of people who will help him. In addition I pray for his protection, that doors will open for him and he will find favor.

I would like to ask all of you praying people to take a moment to say a prayer for this individual, but not just for him. Pray for all those like him who will leave the Department of Corrections. Getting out of prison is a very scary transition for anyone to make, let alone having no place to go. The cards are stacked against him before he walks out of the gate. Lord protect him and lead him to your path for him I pray.

12 comments:

diane b said...

You are such a kind and good teacher and I know how you feel. It is devistating to see a good mind wasted.

Dorcas (aka SingingOwl) said...

This is so tragic. The DOC long ago lost sight of one of its purposes, IMO. It really should not be called "corrections" should it? Grrrr....praying hard with you this week for this young man.

much2ponder said...

Diane...thank you for you kind words and for taking time to pop over here. I appreciate your thoughts.

SO...I knew this might get you a bit steamed, but then again, what's wrong with a little righteous anger. Thank you for your prayers and having a heart that cares.

awareness said...

Good for you to see and feel his potential! :) I have a bunch of questions!! Surprise there eh? :) What does he want to do? Has he narrowed down his career options? What about funding? Scholarships? Can a few phone calls be made to local colleges to find out if they have ever encountered such a situation? Will he have a probation officer that can follow up with him? Are there any transitional procedures in place.... a social worker that can make some enquiries, or at least call the local shelter and talk to the Director there? I bet there are community services that can help. What about the John Howard society? Isn't that their mandate?

Good for you to take it on. Sometimes when someone gets under our skin and into our conscious heart it is a message from God don't you think? Keep us posted.

d.

much2ponder said...

Dana...hello, good to see you! Your questions are good ones and I only wish I had answers for them. I just found out on Friday and he is leaving the institution on Tuesday. I might not even see him again and to be honest the only thing I can do it give him information as to where to find help. Anything else would look like fraternization. Since I am not his social worker, I would be crossing a line and could in effect lose my job. So I do what I can and then I trust the Lord with the rest. I will take your suggestions for use down the road and get more information on hand should something like this come up in the future.

More than anything I guess I was ranting a bit about my frustration with a system that has a lot of holes in it.

Beth in NC said...

Oh, that is so horrible. Poor kid! This is so sad. I will pray.

awareness said...

What a shame. Nothing frustrates me more in my job when I see another human being in the same situation you've described and can't do a darn thing about it because of the parameters of my job responsibilities. If only we didn't live in a work world filled with silos and man made barriers.

Will pray too........... and think of him tomorrow as he begins a new part of his journey. Keep in mind that the seeds you planted and the kindness you showed will never be forgotten. Human connections like that go deep into our souls.

much2ponder said...

Awareness...thanks for coming back. I did get a chance to talk with this young man today. It was a short but good meeting. I had asked Tim from Under the Overpass what this gentle man could expect and shared a bit information that I had obtained. It is not just a day by day shelter, it is a transitional one so he will have access to programs designed to help him get on his feet. He also shared with me that he will be able to move back with his sister in a couple of months when he is off paper. He is thinking of being a cosmetologist. I told him that when he walked into my classroom he stood out like a neon light and that his ability to rise above and keep a good attitude would be a good help to him. I also shared with him the fact that people are praying for him and he seemed to take comfort in that. Last words I spoke to him were, " You got what it takes; go and use your life for what it is meant for." I think he appreciated the encouragement. I have hope for him:)

Anonymous said...

amen

bluedreamer27 said...

you are so kind pat
you really amaze me
i know God is good and he will sure guide this man all through out the way

BLUEDREAMER
FEED YOUR MIND

surjit singh said...

It reflects your kind heartedness.You are blessed.
Thanks for sharing.

bingoboat fan said...

This is saddening. They may have been freed from being in prison, yet they are once again faced with another jail--the outside world! It's so sad that they are not provided a new chance in life to succeed. He should have been offered with a job. Maybe he couldn't get one because of his record. But this shouldn't be the case. I do hope he gets a better life. Hopefully this post of yours would awaken the authorities to do something about it. Poor kid.